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A conversation with your future self.
Someday, you may see things differently. About your independence, safety, money, or accepting help. What if you could tell the people you love today what you’d want them to know tomorrow?
Saved as you go · about 20 to 30 minutes
Personal wishes and permission, not legal authorization or a medical directive.
What this sounds like
Not just what happens.
How you are treated.
“Don't talk about me like I'm not in the room.”
“Two incidents in 12 months, then we talk.”
How many car accidents before your kids get to take your keys? You decide the answer now.
“No major money moves without one call to my person.”
“Do not rearrange my kitchen. I know where everything is.”
“If I disappear for two weeks, show up. Don't just call.”
“Coffee before anyone talks to me.”
How it works
Five stages. Your say at every step.
Work through 12 life areas, from driving to living alone. Choose suggested answers, use your own words, or leave an area for later.
- 01
Notice
Something changes.
- 02
Talk
Someone you trust raises it.
- 03
Support
The least disruptive help comes first.
- 04
Reassess
You see whether things improve.
- 05
Step In
The line you chose has been reached.
From conversation to clarity
Your words.
Something they can hold.
A personal agreement to come back to, revise, and share yourself with the people you trust.
- Your thresholds, life area by life area
- What you want your trusted people to know and do
- Your boundaries, routines, and next review date
- Print your agreement or export it as text or JSON
Personal wishes and preferences, not legal authority.
Read the sample agreementI Said You Could™
My Future-Self Agreement
Illustrative wishes, written in the first person.
Driving
“Two incidents in 12 months, then we talk.”
What I never want
“Don't talk about me like I'm not in the room.”
What makes me feel like me
“Coffee before anyone talks to me.”
An educational planning tool, not a medical directive or power of attorney.
Your words, your choice
Before you sign in, answers stay in this browser. Sign in to save them to your own account.
No automatic sharing
Naming a trusted person does not invite them or give them access. You choose what to share yourself.
Keep control
Export your agreement or delete saved answers in My Data whenever you choose.
Free public beta
Free while we’re in public beta
No payment required. Complete all 12 life areas, create your agreement, sign it, print it, save it to your private account, and come back to revise it.
Nothing is for sale today. Persistent voice, trusted-person access, and automated reminders are not part of this beta.
The people you love deserve to know what you meant.
Know someone who would value this? Share the public homepage, not your private agreement.